Question: I am a 32-year-old man, married for 4 years. However, I have this addiction to go online on dating sites and chat with women (irrespective of their age), get their attention and make them fall for my charm.Once done, I lose interest and start looking for other women/girls.basics like how many past relationships she’s been in, how many of them she’s had sex with and who was the last. At the same time you must promise (her and yourself) never to entertain these advances from outsiders. Coming to the question of your parents’ reaction – you should remember that your wife is living with your parents.It’s she who’s moved to a new home and made a new family her own, not them.
So we are no better here than anywhere else in India.I would also let you know that your wife will feel cheated emotionally if she finds out about this.People often log onto online sites when they need to fulfil their emotional needs and fantasies which they feel are being not met in the real world.She hasn’t confessed anything about any sex before marriage to this date in spite of my insistence.
Whenever I ask her anything about this she gives vague replies, urging me to move on and look at the future instead of the past.That’s something you have a right to protect yourself against. Then mention to her that, at the same time you don’t want to receive info about her past life from outsiders and look like a fool.