With Match you can find singles based on their religious views through our advanced features.I was in conversation with a friend recently who said that contentment is a good sign for Christian singles. It’s a good sign, and one that’s found out from asking the right questions. Lots of single Christians have elevated marriage above God, thinking that sex and date nights and romantic love will give you only what God can. Only God can satisfy the deepest desires of your heart. And a discipline of regular time with God is key to joy and usefulness. I love your desire to be married, have kids, and live happily ever after. Singleness might be a waiting season, but it doesn’t need to be a wasted season. Maybe even get with other singles and have a group discussion.You want someone who will encourage and instill the same values in your children. This question will establish whether he is just out to have a good time with no intention of anything serious. Too many women rationalize or downplay a big issue during the puppy love phase of a new relationship. I know they say, you can’t help who you fall in love with, truth is… Falling in love with a man who refuses to be a father to his kid(s) is a choice.This is definitely a question you want to ask the first day you meet. Don’t assume because he goes to church, has a relationship with God, and is a “God fearing man” that it’s understood that he will wait for you. While everything is still rosy, women might ignore the elephant in the room and end up wasting their precious time, or they pay later by being with a man who doesn’t fulfill their needs. A choice that you will have to live with for the rest of your life.Few things in life are better than trusted, wise, mature Christian friends. Your pastor and family members may not know about your pornography, gossip, and addiction problem, but God does. A lady from work just retired, and sent out a mass email on her last day. You don’t have to be the best, but it should be obvious to your employer that you’re hard-working and competent.
Once you have the answers to these questions, you’ll be in a strong position to know exactly what you want in a partner to make you feel comfortable and happy.It’s knowing that your mate has compatible views and opinions on some of the most important issues in your life.Most couples who are not compatible have relationship problems that lead to a break up. You need to know if the new man in your life is a keeper.But, remember that values go beyond religious choices and having different core values in other aspects of your life can mean that you’d still have a good relationship.
For example, you could hold forgiveness as one of your core values, but your date’s imperfection could be finding it hard to let things go, this doesn’t necessarily mean you shouldn’t date.Before you decide what you’re looking for in a partner, it’s essential to think about your own Christian values.